Do you remember the time you spent with your boyfriend (today’s husband) before marriage when you were not married to him? Are you still satisfied with your sex life after ten years of marriage? If both of you are satisfied, enjoy it. If not then this information is for you.
Before marriage, you used to talk for hours with your best friend because you had so much to share. You used to look forward with great positivity to the date and time to meet your dear friend. Most of the meetings were very exciting and memorable for eternity. Those who made physical relations before marriage, then they were infinitely pleasurable and there was a strong desire to get the same pleasure again. Do you feel any of these things now after ten years of marriage? If yes then you are very lucky and keep enjoying your married life. But in many married couples, such feelings fly away after a few years of marriage. Now the story of their married life is something like this – sex once or twice a week or less, with ten minutes or less of foreplay, two to three minutes of sex and a couple of minutes of after play. After this it is not surprising that many marriages fall into the category of low sex marriages or no sex marriages (this does not mean that in such cases sex does not happen. Sex ten times a year or less than this) Relationships with no sex and relationships with less than twenty-five times come under the category of low sex marriages.) Do you still get thrilled with the expectation of sex from your partner? Perhaps you would say that this is no longer the case. Now it has become an important duty like other duties of married life which must be performed. Whether it’s twice a week or once a month – doesn’t matter much. This is the condition of most of the couples in the world after marriage. The question is why did this happen? What happened? The story of one of my patients is similar. This woman had a great relationship with the then-boyfriend of the now-husband before marriage. Extremely exciting and passionate sex also took place between them several times, but after six years of marriage, they did not have any physical relationship. She even had to resort to assisted reproductive technology to conceive. It is hard to believe but it is the truth. Does having sex with the same partner again and again in the same way does not make any dopamine in the brain, that is, happiness does not happen. What happens to sex after marriage?
Most of us have seen the obsessive love and sex between the hero heroines on the cinema screen in many movies in which the sex is spectacular and the climax is awesome and in which the lovers seem to be walking the skies. Some people must have seen in porn movies that sex lasts for a long time, a lot of semen is ejaculated and there is a banging climax. Many people want to imitate such a hero. But real life is different from cinema. That passion, romance, sexual chemistry and hot sex lasts only six months to two years from most people’s lives. After that the situation changes. Both start feeling that their sex life does not have the passion and yearning that it used to be. The age of romantic sex is really very short. Libido cannot be sustained only by romantic sex. Libido is dependent on sexual and emotional intimacy. Intimacy, unsolicited intimacy and sexuality in the bedroom are essential for maintaining libido. Libido is mutual, not solitary. Partners need to learn to think, talk, act and feel like a close team. Both the partners have to increase each other’s sexual feeling and libido.
What exactly is healthy sexuality?
Sex is not limited to genitals, intercourse and climax only. Sexuality includes your attitude, feelings, feelings and morals. It is a natural and healthy element of human life. Negativity and guilt have no place in this Sexuality is an integral part of your personality.
The essence of sexuality lies in the transaction of blissful touch.
You should express your sexuality which will enhance your intimate relationship. In fact, it has been found in most of the couples that after some time of marriage there is no excitement in sex. This too, like many other tasks, remains a task that has to be done. The reason for this is to have unlimited expectations. Even before marriage, merely seeing a woman used to bring rigidity in the penis of the man, that is, no special effort had to be made for this. He could easily have sex more than once. The woman was also full of self-confidence because creating such a great response in her male partner was like a game of her left hand. But now everything has changed. The couple has to consider many such matters which were not there before, from finances, pregnancy and adjusting to the new environment, etc. to facing the situation of minor disagreements, etc., more for you. become important.
